7 Things Men Find Unattractive But Won’t Tell You

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Ladies, brace yourselves and prepare for some home truths; here are the 7 things men find unattractive about women, but won’t tell you.


 7. Smoking

How many polls have to be taken, for women to understand this one? Among men’s top turn-offs is a woman who smokes cigarettes. Not only does it look trashy, but smelling like an ash tray afterwards is a big turn off for most men.

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7. Smoking

6. Cursing

Ladies cursing is never classy, and it’s definitely not a turn-on. Rather than raising your voice to curse someone’s life out, improve your argument, by improving your vocabulary, and use that to get your point across. There’s nothing more attractive than a well-spoken woman that demonstrates her intellect, especially when she’s all fired up.


6. Cursing

5. Attention-Seeker

Girls, there is nothing wrong with taking a selfie…every once in a while. However, too many selfies will definitely send out the wrong message to men. Most men view women who post too many pictures of themselves as insecure, conceded, bored, and pathetically attention-seeking. If you can’t count the number of selfies you’ve posted on one hand, it’s time to take a break, a long break.

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5. Attention-Seeker


4. Indecent Attire

Some women believe that the more they expose themselves, the better, when it comes to attracting men.  In reality, this may be true, but it may be attracting the wrong attention. Do you want to be the object of today, or the life-time achievement award? Nothing says sexy more, than a sophisticated and elegantly dressed woman.  If you want him to take you seriously, gain his respect, not his eye. Plus, most men prefer a woman who dresses sexy for their eyes only.

source: http://i.huffpost.com/gadgets/slideshows/2139/slide_2139_27815_large.jpg

As the wife of Jordan’s King Abdullah II, Queen Rania serves as a diplomat, as a mother of four, and as royalty…and she’s got a different look for every duty. Rania turns to a simple color palette when she’s working at a foundation or on a campaign, mixing grays, beiges and browns. As a polished parent, she chooses casual and coordinated ensembles. And when she plays the Queen card, she really glams it up with sequins and flowing fabric!

3. Not Being Straight-Forward

This one may be a surprise for some women, but men can’t telepathically read minds, so stop assuming they know everything going on in that head of yours. If something is bothering you, just tell them! Responding with “I’m fine,”  “nothing’s wrong,” and the infamous “I’m okay, stop asking,” will not get you anywhere. They will listen to you (what you actually want) and trust that there is nothing wrong. Make it simple, speak your mind and use your big-girl words! Remember, no communication, means no relationship.

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3. Not Being Straight-Forward

2. Jealousy And Insecurity

Nothing is more attractive than a woman with confidence. Being a little jealous is normal, but an extremely jealous girl usually means she is one of two things, she’s insecure or has low self-esteem. Men want a woman who is strong, confident, independent, and most importantly, values her worth. When you know your worth, you will never let another woman come close to intimidating you.

Source: http://www.speak-first.com/uploads/Woman%20strong%20stance.jpg

2. Jealousy And Insecurity

1.Flirting Or Being Too Friendly With Other Men

Men love a woman who flirts, but not when they do it with everyone else. This is the biggest turn off for men, and it may even be the reason your last relationship didn’t work. Flirting sends guys the message that you need constant attention and have major self-esteem issues. It’s simple; if everyone can have it they don’t want it.

Source: http://naijamayor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/ex-girlfriend-flirting-with-other-guys-270x400.jpg

1. Flirting or being too friendly with other guys

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